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Emma:Hey, is this anonymous?

Yes it is

Lily:Me and my friend are being bullied by the boys in my class, what should i do?

It's great that you have each other for support. I'm wondering if you have spoken to your teacher about whats happening. The school should have an anti-bullying policy and your teacher should help you deal with the boys. Have you thought of calling Childline?

Sazzle:I'm 15 and still haven't come on my period, should i be worred?

Everyone's bodies change at different times. I can understand that you might feel worried if your friends have started their periods and you havent. Everything should be fine but if you are concerned you could always make an appointment with your GP.

Stargazer:what can i talk about in this chat?

I am here to talk to you about any concerns you may be having. Is there something in paticular that you would like to ask? If you feel unsure you can always give Childline a ring on 08001111 as there are people there 24hours to speak to you and it's confidential as well.

Lily:My parents are always arguing I can never concentrate on my hwork. It's starting to upset me should i talk to them?

School work is really important but so is your relationship with your parents. They may not realise that their arguing is getting to you. It sounds like a good idea to speak to them. Try to pick a time when they are calm and think about what it is you would like to say to them before hand. Its never easy speaking to parents about these things but I think you are very brave to do so.

Stargazer:It sounds stupid but i'm really worried that my brother is doing drugs, i have never seen him and he might not be but iv heard loads of stories about drugs and i;m worried

That doesn't sound stupid at all. In fact it sounds like you are a really great sister who is concerned. I'm wondering what makes you think he is doing drugs? Do you find it easy to speak to him? Perhaps you could tell him how you feel and that you are worried. If you cant speak to him maybe you could write him a letter? Even just letting him know you are thinking about him is a good start. Are you able to speak to your parents about your thoughts? Its important for you to take care of yourself and not sit alone with your concerns.

dabomb:all my mates no what they are goin to do afta school, i dont wanna stay in school but i dont wanna get a job. what other things can i do?

That sounds like a hard questions to answer without knowing more about you. Sometimes when we don't want to work or go to school it's because we actually don't know what we want to do with ourselves. I would suggest giving some thought about what you enjoy doing. It's ok to be confused about your future. Its hard when everyone around you knows what they want to do and you don't. Try not to put to much pressure on yourself to figure things out right away. Maybe it would be good to speak to a counsellor at school, if you have one, to find out what your optiions are.

lorraine.eaton:Wot if u tlk 2 ur parents to tell them to stop arguing n they don't listen?

That is a hard one. We can't control other people. All we can do is tell them how we feel and then choose what we do. When they are arguing possibly try and move to another room or distract yourself with something else. Perhaps talking to them when the are not together. Try to talk to the parent you feel most able to speak to and let them know how it is impacting on you.

charly:at school i feel like if i say something to the teachers everyone will know it was me, what should i do?

That is certianly a real concern. You want to tell the teacher but you also don't want to be found out. Can you tell the teacher your fears and why you don't want everyone to know it was you? Perhaps you could write her a note and not include your name?

tazazs:My mum and dad have got a strict curfew on me since i got drunk with my mates i want to go out and have fun but they wont let me, well only til 9

It sounds like you are feeling really frustrated as it seems like your parent's have lost some trust in you and now it feels like they are being really strict. Perhaps you could speak to them and work out how you could gain some of their trust back. They are probably worried about you and want to see that you are ok. What things could you do to prove that they don't need to worry?

princess:im going away with the skl for a weekend soon and im worried i will have my period when im there. what shall i do

Having your period is perfectly normal. However that doesn't mean that it wont come at times which are not the best! If you are worried it might be good to mention this to a teacher or a friend who you trust before you go. You may want to bring some supplies with you just incase.

xxxxxxx:i've been upset because my dad is an alcoholic and my sister might leave what shud i do

That sounds like a really heavy situation. Your torn between your dad and his behaviour and your sister. Have you been able to speak to anyone about what is happening at home? It sounds like a lot for you to cope with by yourself. Have you thought about calling Childline? Living in a house with an alcoholic is not easy for anyone. I would really encourage you to speak to someone you trust about what is happening.

Princess4lyf: my bst m8z h8 me, cuz ov 1 stupid tht hapnd ages ago nd i only hang around wiv them cuz i dont av ani1 else , wht shuld i dfo?

Have you tried talking to your friend and explaining what happened? Also it sounds like you aren't very happy with your friendsips as they are. Maybe you could look at getting involved with other activities to try and get to know other people. Friendships can be confusing but its always best to be honest about your feelings. Good luck.

milly: I really don't like what i look like all my friends look so skinny compared to me, i've started skipping meals to lose weight but it's not working. How can i feel beter about myself?

Skipping meals is never a good idea for losing weight. It is hard though when you are comparing yourself to someone else. Feeling better about yourself wont start with how much you weigh. Its about liking who you are in being ok in yourself. Try to find things that make you special, not just your weight. If you want to call Childline we can speak to you more about who you are and how you can learn to like yourself more. You seem like a great person so I would encourage you to try not to just focus on weight, although I know it's hard.

Masha: My mates Brother is a total bully and has even made her mum cry he allways pushes people around what can she do to stop him

That sounds like a hard situation. I would recommend that she speaks to someone she trusts about what is happening. She could try speaking to him about what is bothering him as well. If she doesn't feel comfortable with that she could try calling Childline. Perhaps the two of you could call together? Your being a great friend being concerned.

princess: but i've never had 1 before what if it hurts

Sometimes you can feel slight discomfort during your period. If you do get it and you feel this way try and let someone know. Perhaps try and speak to you mom before you go. It likely wont be so bad that it will stop you from doing anything.

rob: i have ginger hair and i always get left out, is there anything i can do to make people realise i'm just the same as them?

It's really hard when you are 'different' from others when actually just as you have said you are just the same as them. Trying to ignore what they are saying is easier said then done but there is some importance in that. By acting normal you are showing them that you are just like them and it doesn't matter what color your hair is. You are special and deserve to be included just like them.

Thank you so much for chatting with me. I hope it has been helpful, I have really enjoyed it. If you have more questions or would like to talk about anything else that you are concerned about please call Childline on 08001111 or look on the website www.childline.org.uk. We are there 24 hours a day to listen to your worries no matter how big or small you think the problem is. Take care and speak to you soon!!!

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Tuesday 24th June, 4h30pm

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