Selena Gomez talks about her "damaging" relationship

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It’s all too easy to fall into a relationship when you end up completely changing who you are for the sake of the other person and eventually end up being unhappy. It sucks but it’s a learning curve.

Selena Gomez has admitted she’s been there too, and after going out with a guy that her friends and family “hated” she says she’ll never go out with anyone who wants her to change again.

Speaking to Top of the Pops, Sel, who is now dating Justin Bieber, revealed: "I wasn't myself for a year. I think that was really damaging. I felt like it was me who was always trying to be perfect for him.

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"Everyone around me hated him but I didn't listen. I think I had to go through it because now I'm the strongest I've been.

"I dare someone to try and change me again."

She also told how she couldn’t be a “goof-ball” who could have dress down days when she was with him, click next to read more…

 

 

 
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Selena continued: "I always dressed nice. I don't think he ever saw me in sweatpants - and I love sweatpants. I'd always be well-mannered and go to his favourite restaurants or whatever.

"There was a point where I lost myself completely. I didn't smile as much, I didn't laugh as much. I wasn't a goofball. I didn't get up and dance like I usually do.

"And when that one ended, I didn't know where I was. But I got it back and was really happy. My family were happy to have me back."

Well we’re glad you realised that you should never sacrifice who you really are for the sake of an idiot guy, there’s always one who will love you for exactly who you are… Jeez we sound like a support group, ‘tis true though!

Is it good to know that even Selena gets it wrong sometimes? Think her and Justin are made for each other?

Comments please…

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